Thank you guys for all the sweet messages/posts about me! You encourage me to keep going :)
Oooh creepy things.
Btw, if anyone’s got a masterpost (or just a not-master post) on horror movies, especially horror movies about hauntings <.< Good, modern movies in that genre are so rare and I love them so. Very. Much.
I see a lot of posts telling asexual folk that it’s okay to have sex and to even like sex. And it is okay! but i havent seen any posts saying it’s okay to be sex repulsed. And I know a lot of folk who feel bad about being sex repulsed. Well, it is 1000% okay to sex repulsed or to dislike sex or to never have it for whatever reason. It’s all okay.
Seconding the hell out of this.
I’ll also add I think it’s important to know and accept that about yourself if you’re not aromantic, because being upfront about these things => tons of heartache saved.
Getting stung by a surprise!hornet while you’re driving and getting out of the ordeal with nothing more than a brief panic and some angry red skin… Sort of makes you realise that, just about half an hour ago, your life could just as easily have ended smashed against a tree.
If you have been bullied, hit, teased, put down, hurt, lied to, or hated by your own family; you don’t need to justify how you feel. You don’t need to explain yourself. You are allowed to hate a family member or dislike a family member if they’ve given you a reason to.
this is so fucking important
That is so toxic to kids born in abusive homes - imagine, you are already doubting whether you really are being abused or if this is normal/you do deserve it, and then people chime in at the least sign of revolt on your part with this wonderful “but they are family” bullshit.